The Real #FF !!

As 2014 draws to a close, we take time to reflect on what was and what will possibly be for the coming year.

For those of you who are active on Twitter, there has been a hashtag called #FF which stands for “Follow Friday.”  It’s where people recommend others that are on Twitter for you to consider following.  When Twitter was in its infancy, this was huge every Friday and you’d see tweets flying so quickly that your head would spin.  People were excited to connect and see who else was out on the social platform.

Inevitably, you’d see the same names week after week because, like any system, there is a bell curve of activity.  There are many who are very visible, active and they do a great job of posting their material and the material of others.  There are also many who “lurk” and watch what people write and post.  Nothing wrong with lurking because I’m assuming that you are trying to see what has value to you and this allows you to filter what information you like and avoid that which you don’t.

There is also a significant group of people who dabble in social media because someone encouraged them to, but they lose interest quickly. For whatever reason, it just doesn’t capture enough of their attention to merit ongoing effort.  They may show up in a #FF once in a while, but they rarely reciprocate.

Friends and FamilyThis isn’t specifically a post about Social Media though.  You see this past week during the holidays was filled with the Real FF – Friends and Family !!  People gathered from all over to make sure to see each other and catch up.  These times of seeing people in person has immeasurable value.  It’s great to hear new stories or relive old memories surrounded by warmth and laughter.

In my case, these gatherings are also generational.  There are Grandparents, Aunt, Uncles, and cousins of various ages and from various backgrounds.  They live in urban settings, rural settings and suburban settings.  It’s a broad spectrum that continues to grow as the families grow.

Getting together with people in person is energizing for me. To take the time to get to connect with friends is something I look forward to every time I get to go to an event.  I am a big proponent of the #FF movement on Twitter and try my best to keep active because I believe these electronic introductions can lead to meaningful connections and friendships.

Going into to 2015, I hope to make more of the #FF that I do socially come to life in person.  I believe that the more intentional we are in making these connections become a reality, we experience that “friends and family” high of getting to know one another.

So, be on the lookout !!  I plan to make sure to rekindle existing friendships as well as develop new ones.  I hope that you are one of those #FF folks who truly becomes a friend.  Don’t be surprised when I find you !!  It will be magnificent !!

3 thoughts on “The Real #FF !!”

  1. AMEN to the Family & Friends definition of FF. As I think back over the years, I recall the family “get-togethers” with my aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, etc.

    The Air Force was my next FF, and then college, marriage and a whole new group of friends and family.

    Being in HR for over 35 years, co-workers, fellow HR professionals were also my family and friends. Conferences, State Council meetings, etc. became my means by which to “connect” and spend time with people. An especially warm memory is our “friends get together” at Sawmill by the big fireplace, telling stories, having a cold one and reveling in the friendship.

    Now in retirement, I am connecting with another group of F&F’s. As in my earlier life, I still enjoy the opportunity to connect with new people and spend time with them. Teaching and doing some consulting is providing me those opportunities.

    Happy New Year to my Family and Friends!

  2. Some of my favorite “family” members are those friends who have become so close. Cheers to 2015 and love your idea about more in person contacts. 🙂

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